You can pretend to be a woman, that’s your choice.
If you want me to pretend you’re a woman, that’s my choice.
You are making a wrong assumption with the use of the word, PRETEND.
If you have the genes that allows your brain to have that of a woman, but the body of a man. Are they pretending?
I don't think, pretend comes into play here. Let them swap out the parts that don't fit the brain patterns and let them be who their brain says they are. No one is going to get a sex reassignment just because they want to. At least in the U.S. it won't happen. They have to go through many serious testing and evaluations before a doctor will do such a thing to make sure the brain truly is in line with that program, not just because someone wants to.
And yes, it is your right to not want to go along with that if you so choose, but I don't understand why you would care one bit. It is not hurting you in any way.
The bathroom bit is pure garbage. What the hell difference does it make if girls and boys are in the same bathroom? That is a "
Church Ladies" phobia that anyone with a brain should just laugh at. Japan has gender neutral bathrooms and it works out just fine.
Sports... We need to do away with that stupid, boys sports and girls sports and just have sports. Everybody plays all sports. On average the girls will be better at some sports and the boys will be better at other sports. So what?
There is a mental blockage that humans seem to have that we must somehow keep male and female separated with walls and rules. It is just bullshit. We are all humans as one species. We did this with the military for a lot of years. Oh, we can't have women in combat. Turns out the woman are pretty damn good at combat and now we want more of them.
You may not like it, and that is up to you, but don't try to limit someone else to your ideas either. And just because you think someone is pretending, doesn't make it so, unless you have been through some serious medical training along those lines. If I have a Ford and it has a Chevy trunk lid, it is not a Chevy. It is a Ford with a wrong part.