My groundman just died

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Just found out from my main groundman that Smitty, my part time groundie just died this morning. He just got out of prison after 20 years, early last summer and my main guy Scott had given him some side work with him as they live nearby each other, which is about 25 miles from me. I began to use him occasionally to bust up firewood and would take him out on some jobs if we had to have a third guy.

He was about 45, always upbeat and could work as hard as the hardest working guy I have ever had in my 46 years. He had just called me yesterday to check work status and bust my chops about the Bengals as he was a Bengals hater (Browns fan).

He lived a hard life like so many do. He had no D license related to his incarceration I am sure. He rode a mountain bike with a 80 cc assist motor on it. He had been hit on his bike by trucks 2 times in the last couple of weeks. He had a huge welt and scrapes on one side of his rib cage from one and the same on the other side from the other.

Scott ran him all over town to do various necessaries. Work on getting his license, do odd jobs, get food etc etc. Most recently he drove him 20 miles to work each way prior to coming in to my job and also took him to appointments to a lawyer to litigate against the truck (a state vehicle) that struck and threw him the second time. The first time, the tractor trailer stopped and went over to him and saw that he was down, then sped off without even checking his well being.

People out there are living some real hard lives. He lived with a real old lady that let him have a room in a trailer for 50 bucks a week but I am sure he felt real uncomfortable there.

Not sure if he had a drug relapse although he showed NO signs of intoxication all the times he worked for me be it 100 degree humid days on the shadeless splitting pile, or on the jobs...or when ever. He busted ass and we laughed and kidded thru all of it.

Just saying, maybe appreciate people a little more whenever you can and maybe it could make a difference. My GM is like a saint and did some time himself so he feels compelled to help I suppose. But maybe NOTHING can be done were one a slave to a highly addictive substance.

Cold dark dank depressing winter, holidays, no family, few friends...some tough stuff and hard realities. Maybe easier on the inside where you just go thru the motions and have captive relationships. But Just showing them a little warmth can go a long way, if not in perpetuity but maybe just for the moment...in my opinion for what it is worth. This is very sad.
 
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Life is a fragile thing. Too often we give more respect to one wearing a $2,000 suit than one in need.

Good reminder. I believe he was blessed to have you and your main GM in his life.
 
Scott sounds like an upstanding guy. You both did what you could to help this guy out. Sad when someone can't outrun their demons or just step aside and let them pass.
 
He was really trying. He worked so hard. Was so conscientious. He painted my whole crane boom himself, the turret and rr rigs. Then he took some windex out of shop and cleaned the whole cab with it and rags. He was so pleasant and respectful to clients. But he was getting skinny and I asked Scott about it who knew nothing. Still haven't found out the cause of death. I gave Scott the day off today and worked by myself.
 
Sorry. I have a young kid right now that had a similar history. His jail term was the best thing that happened to him. Spent 2 years fighting forest fires in Colorado. Nice to hear the penitentiary system working. Now he is back working with us. Has demons he can't control. Abusive family background, poor attendance record with me but works his ass off most of the time. I see him struggle and want to help more but realize the best I can do is be a mentor and that is it. I feel for your loss and remind you to take the compliments given here to heart. They are the fruits of your labor and love for others
 
Just found out from my main groundman that Smitty, my part time groundie just died this morning. He just got out of prison after 20 years, early last summer and my main guy Scott had given him some side work with him as they live nearby each other, which is about 25 miles from me. I began to use him occasionally to bust up firewood and would take him out on some jobs if we had to have a third guy.

He was about 45, always upbeat and could work as hard as the hardest working guy I have ever had in my 46 years. He had just called me yesterday to check work status and bust my chops about the Bengals as he was a Bengals hater (Browns fan).

He lived a hard life like so many do. He had no D license related to his incarceration I am sure. He rode a mountain bike with a 80 cc assist motor on it. He had been hit on his bike by trucks 2 times in the last couple of weeks. He had a huge welt and scrapes on one side of his rib cage from one and the same on the other side from the other.

Scott ran him all over town to do various necessaries. Work on getting his license, do odd jobs, get food etc etc. Most recently he drove him 20 miles to work each way prior to coming in to my job and also took him to appointments to a lawyer to litigate against the truck (a state vehicle) that struck and threw him the second time. The first time, the tractor trailer stopped and went over to him and saw that he was down, then sped off without even checking his well being.

People out there are living some real hard lives. He lived with a real old lady that let him have a room in a trailer for 50 bucks a week but I am sure he felt real uncomfortable there.

Not sure if he had a drug relapse although he showed NO signs of intoxication all the times he worked for me be it 100 degree humid days on the shadeless splitting pile, or on the jobs...or when ever. He busted ass and we laughed and kidded thru all of it.

Just saying, maybe appreciate people a little more whenever you can and maybe it could make a difference. My GM is like a saint and did some time himself so he feels compelled to help I suppose. But maybe NOTHING can be done were one a slave to a highly addictive substance.

Cold dark dank depressing winter, holidays, no family, few friends...some tough stuff and hard realities. Maybe easier on the inside where you just go thru the motions and have captive relationships. But Just showing them a little warmth can go a long way, if not in perpetuity but maybe just for the moment...in my opinion for what it is worth. This is very sad.

Oh my David, sorry for this loss....I wear empathy on my heart daily as it is how I see life....we never know what folks have endured to reach their present state...I read this here on a sunny Barbados morning and truly feel for the life I have...RIP Smitty
 
Very sorry to hear this story, the WORLD is full of so much pain and suffering and so many have so little.
Thanks for sharing and reminding us all of our responsibility to help share when we have so much. (We are all just an moment away from having nothing.)
 

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