climbingmonkey24
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I have someone who will help with some jobs doing ground work.
He's more so doing it by choice offering to help so I have to be flexible with him.
However lately I've been getting frustrated because whenever I call him to discuss his availability for the week and what jobs I may need help with he starts going on about the weather, and whether it looks good or looks like it may rain, etc. I called him today to find out his availability for this week and the first thing out of his mouth was tomorrow looks like bad weather and a miserable day, and I finally went off on it. First off tomorrow is looking windy but also sunny, and he was describing it as being miserable weather.
So I said to him point blank this is my business and I make the decisions. When I call I'm calling to find out what he's available for not what the weather is. And I told him this job is not always going to be under the best most comfortable circumstances. For the most part we don't work in the rain a lot but there are some jobs we may work in bad weather, it's the nature of the business. Then he starts questioning me well how am I going to climb in bad weather, etc. and I'm getting pissed because that isn't his concern. He's there to drag brush and do cleanup, all he needs to be concerned with is his availability. Let me worry about the rest.
I've got NO problem whatsoever if he wants to not work in bad weather, because like I said he's helping me out he didn't actually ask for a job so I do give him flexibility but I've started feeling like he is trying to control how I schedule my work, etc. and that is where I draw the line because this is MY business. I will check the weather and determine what's what, all he needs to do is tell me what he's available for but instead I feel like he's trying to interfere with my decision making process because of how he feels about working in bad weather.
It seems like every time I call him he always brings up the fucking weather, trying to analyze it and wondering if we should just not work and I try telling him that is MY decision. We can always plan a job and then call it in the morning if the weather is too bad but he doesn't want to have to get up early just to find out we aren't working.
We did a job last week in the rain, and it went great. I suggested to him that if we find ourselves in a situation like this again he should bring extra clothes to change if he get's too wet and he made the comment that if he has to do that he assumes we shouldn't be working and I'm like WTF? That's not your decision to make!
Time to find a new helper or what you think? The guy is a hard worker and I like working with him, but this is something that has been slowly building up over time and is starting to really frustrate me.
When I told him that it isn't supposed to rain tomorrow his response was that he would have to go check the weather. So told him do what you have to do I'm all set, thanks and hung up. I don't got time for that bullshit.
He's more so doing it by choice offering to help so I have to be flexible with him.
However lately I've been getting frustrated because whenever I call him to discuss his availability for the week and what jobs I may need help with he starts going on about the weather, and whether it looks good or looks like it may rain, etc. I called him today to find out his availability for this week and the first thing out of his mouth was tomorrow looks like bad weather and a miserable day, and I finally went off on it. First off tomorrow is looking windy but also sunny, and he was describing it as being miserable weather.
So I said to him point blank this is my business and I make the decisions. When I call I'm calling to find out what he's available for not what the weather is. And I told him this job is not always going to be under the best most comfortable circumstances. For the most part we don't work in the rain a lot but there are some jobs we may work in bad weather, it's the nature of the business. Then he starts questioning me well how am I going to climb in bad weather, etc. and I'm getting pissed because that isn't his concern. He's there to drag brush and do cleanup, all he needs to be concerned with is his availability. Let me worry about the rest.
I've got NO problem whatsoever if he wants to not work in bad weather, because like I said he's helping me out he didn't actually ask for a job so I do give him flexibility but I've started feeling like he is trying to control how I schedule my work, etc. and that is where I draw the line because this is MY business. I will check the weather and determine what's what, all he needs to do is tell me what he's available for but instead I feel like he's trying to interfere with my decision making process because of how he feels about working in bad weather.
It seems like every time I call him he always brings up the fucking weather, trying to analyze it and wondering if we should just not work and I try telling him that is MY decision. We can always plan a job and then call it in the morning if the weather is too bad but he doesn't want to have to get up early just to find out we aren't working.
We did a job last week in the rain, and it went great. I suggested to him that if we find ourselves in a situation like this again he should bring extra clothes to change if he get's too wet and he made the comment that if he has to do that he assumes we shouldn't be working and I'm like WTF? That's not your decision to make!
Time to find a new helper or what you think? The guy is a hard worker and I like working with him, but this is something that has been slowly building up over time and is starting to really frustrate me.
When I told him that it isn't supposed to rain tomorrow his response was that he would have to go check the weather. So told him do what you have to do I'm all set, thanks and hung up. I don't got time for that bullshit.
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