Well.... you can get all bent out of shape, but then you have to let it go and not hold a grudge.
There are quite a few on here that hold a grudge against me, that is for sure; for something I argued about or brought to the surface about them in the past.
Swingdude and I had it out a month or more ago, then I let it go and I'm pretty sure he honestly let it go.
Not too many guys can really let it go. I see it come back, years later even.