- Location
- Retired in Minneapolis
Brian,
Are you able to carry on a dialog? That means being able to listen to what others have to say without attacking or fuming. Just becaues everyone doesn't follow lock step in your thought pattern doesn't mean that you're being attacked.
Calm down and lighten up. Think of this as a pot luck. Is that just a Midwest thing maybe? When someone has a party, everyone who comes brings something to share. Rolls, drinks, a favorite dish, I make a dang good fruit salad that's pretty famous in my family. If there's something on the table that you don't like, the polite thing to do is just pass it up. Making nasty and rude comments on someone else's gift is considered very boorish. I've know people who got shuffled out of the party for doing that. Get my drift? Share a dish but don't be spittin' on my fruit salad. If you don't like it, keep it to yourself, I'm not holding a gun to your head to eat.
Now, where were we? Oh, electric lines...
Are you able to carry on a dialog? That means being able to listen to what others have to say without attacking or fuming. Just becaues everyone doesn't follow lock step in your thought pattern doesn't mean that you're being attacked.
Calm down and lighten up. Think of this as a pot luck. Is that just a Midwest thing maybe? When someone has a party, everyone who comes brings something to share. Rolls, drinks, a favorite dish, I make a dang good fruit salad that's pretty famous in my family. If there's something on the table that you don't like, the polite thing to do is just pass it up. Making nasty and rude comments on someone else's gift is considered very boorish. I've know people who got shuffled out of the party for doing that. Get my drift? Share a dish but don't be spittin' on my fruit salad. If you don't like it, keep it to yourself, I'm not holding a gun to your head to eat.
Now, where were we? Oh, electric lines...