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- Retired in Minneapolis
After reading Mark's "What the Hell" thread I decided to comment on his feeling, one that I know that all of us have had at one time or another. We see something happening that makes us uncomfortable but feel too awkward to comment or stop what's going on. We're taught to be polite and mind our own business. I've poked my nose in, with entirely good intentions, and gotten some pretty bad reactions. Hard to toughen up the skin for the next time. In some way, we're obligated to stop a practice that could lead to injury or accident. Sometimes things happen so fast that we can't react though.
When I was leading winter camping trips I came up with a system for everyone in the group to be comfortable about safety. Since, most of the time, the leaders in the organization were the most experienced, there developed a feeling that the participants "couldn't" call the leaders on some action. To level the field I came up with what I call the VOTE/VETO. An anagram of the word. The way this works is that anyone can call a halt to another person's action if they feel that safety is comprimised. Then, there would be a discussion and justification of the action. I've been called on this a few times. Most of the time, I understood that what I was doing might be dangerous and accounted for that risk. At other times, the peron who stopped me wasn't as skilled and they knew that if they were doing what I was doing, they would be at risk. We talked about what I was doing, the risks and my skills. They were then comfortable letting me continue. I appreciated everytime that someone cared enough to pay attention to what I was doing, and stop me. Creating a "Safe Mode" makes an awkward situation much easier.
The VOTE/VETO would be hard to apply in a public situation. I look at it like give CPR. Once the person is unconscious they have given implied consent to allow CPR to be applied. That's what a reasonable person is expected to do. We, as professionals, are held to a higher standard than homeowner tree cutters. I fear that a case could be made in court that if we saw a situation that could lead to death or injury and we didn't stop the action, we might be held accountable. I sure don't want this to deteriorate into a discussion about frivolous lawsuits or lawyer bashing. Similar cases have been made in other situations.
What IS our obligation? I sure don't know. I decided a while ago that I would rather have someone tell me to head straight to hell and maybe have stopped them from killing themeselves than to not say anything and hear about an accident. Pretty uncomfortable either way.
Tom
When I was leading winter camping trips I came up with a system for everyone in the group to be comfortable about safety. Since, most of the time, the leaders in the organization were the most experienced, there developed a feeling that the participants "couldn't" call the leaders on some action. To level the field I came up with what I call the VOTE/VETO. An anagram of the word. The way this works is that anyone can call a halt to another person's action if they feel that safety is comprimised. Then, there would be a discussion and justification of the action. I've been called on this a few times. Most of the time, I understood that what I was doing might be dangerous and accounted for that risk. At other times, the peron who stopped me wasn't as skilled and they knew that if they were doing what I was doing, they would be at risk. We talked about what I was doing, the risks and my skills. They were then comfortable letting me continue. I appreciated everytime that someone cared enough to pay attention to what I was doing, and stop me. Creating a "Safe Mode" makes an awkward situation much easier.
The VOTE/VETO would be hard to apply in a public situation. I look at it like give CPR. Once the person is unconscious they have given implied consent to allow CPR to be applied. That's what a reasonable person is expected to do. We, as professionals, are held to a higher standard than homeowner tree cutters. I fear that a case could be made in court that if we saw a situation that could lead to death or injury and we didn't stop the action, we might be held accountable. I sure don't want this to deteriorate into a discussion about frivolous lawsuits or lawyer bashing. Similar cases have been made in other situations.
What IS our obligation? I sure don't know. I decided a while ago that I would rather have someone tell me to head straight to hell and maybe have stopped them from killing themeselves than to not say anything and hear about an accident. Pretty uncomfortable either way.
Tom