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Tom Dunlap

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Over the past couple of weeks there have been two threads centered on two very different people. The way that the reactions have tracked and who commented is very interesting.

On another forum that I follow there is a discussion about how some of the Native American tribes have changed the rules about tribal membership. One of the forumites wrote an insightful comment on that topic. What he wrote does apply to any tribe, whether its social, cultural, economic of your bowling team.

Have a read, except SZ, he's in a tribe of his own and sets his own rules :

Tribes are self-defining. Who is, or who isn't, a member of the tribe or clan is up to the tribe or clan. I know the local Mashantucket Pequots view the issue with trepidation and avoid adding to, or subtracting from, their membership realizing the matter is a big can of worms. In Beowulf's day (a European) you could adopted into a clan for valiant deeds. You could also be ostracized for acts contrary to the interests or beliefs of the tribe. I am descended from members of a highland Scottish clan whose great distinction was dying well, but I carry the wrong last name, live overseas, and know the clan lacked a chief for four straight centuries. Could I apply for membership? Yes, but what would the benefit be to me or to them? There's no advantage that I can see in membership. And then you could always go off and start your own clan. Much of this easy come, easy go, at the whim of the majority, applies as easily to social clubs, religious sects, and amateur sports teams. One defining aspect of human beings is their inclination to gather into groups to heighten their prospects of survival, material gain, or entertainment. Policing social groups for "fairness" and regulating against caprice would be unending and society does have an interest in using social groups to address those groups' needs. Ultimately social groups that become too unfair do not survive because members leave, in essence they are self-policing to a point.
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i must be honest ... a while back i started a thread on what i thought would have been a good business discussion. the trhead didnt last too long.I was kind of dissappointed but i thought oh well maybe the topic was not that interesting after all.
Yet, sometimes a thread will start where a guy like Daniel makes a post or Riggs makes a comment and guys go on and on and on for 10 12 or 15 pages ripping a guy or making comments and piling on. I think to myself what a shame! Guys chased Noel off of here on a thread where he topped or rounded over a row of Bradford pears.....I mean Bradford pears!!! really...people went on and on about it w self righteous indignation,,,,Im not really sure how to proccess all of it sometimes!! it seems a little like 7th grade school girl drama to me!! I personally think it inhibits people from opening up and sharing ceratin things because they dont feel like putting up w the potential crap storm that may ensue!!
 
I just skimmed it, instead of reading for comprehension. But in theory, I agree.

I hang around treebuzz mostly to make myself seem more important than I already am. I'm actually a pretty big deal around here.



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Are we talking about Survivor on CBS, this stuff seems very much like tribal council when a tribe votes a seemingly dead weight member off the show. Lol. Alike the game, human nature is such that we are always fighting for self preservation just to win in the game of life. So much so they even made a "reality" show about it. And let's get it clear here I am not advocating this rubbish, I don't do politics, too much of a free spirit to get involved. Paul.
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Well I won't EVER vote anyone off but what the heck I second easy for president 2012. And while we at it can I be treasurer , as I need some new gear hee hee.
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I feel the same way...I think many of the posts started that could be very educational are often pushed aside for pictures of "bad volcano mulching" or a "look at this topped tree pic"...It's just like anything,you gotta take the good with the bad...Although there's a lot more positives than negatives here
 
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Over the past couple of weeks there have been two threads centered on two very different people. The way that the reactions have tracked and who commented is very interesting.

On another forum that I follow there is a discussion about how some of the Native American tribes have changed the rules about tribal membership. One of the forumites wrote an insightful comment on that topic. What he wrote does apply to any tribe, whether its social, cultural, economic of your bowling team.

Have a read, except SZ, he's in a tribe of his own and sets his own rules :

Tribes are self-defining. Who is, or who isn't, a member of the tribe or clan is up to the tribe or clan. I know the local Mashantucket Pequots view the issue with trepidation and avoid adding to, or subtracting from, their membership realizing the matter is a big can of worms. In Beowulf's day (a European) you could adopted into a clan for valiant deeds. You could also be ostracized for acts contrary to the interests or beliefs of the tribe. I am descended from members of a highland Scottish clan whose great distinction was dying well, but I carry the wrong last name, live overseas, and know the clan lacked a chief for four straight centuries. Could I apply for membership? Yes, but what would the benefit be to me or to them? There's no advantage that I can see in membership. And then you could always go off and start your own clan. Much of this easy come, easy go, at the whim of the majority, applies as easily to social clubs, religious sects, and amateur sports teams. One defining aspect of human beings is their inclination to gather into groups to heighten their prospects of survival, material gain, or entertainment. Policing social groups for "fairness" and regulating against caprice would be unending and society does have an interest in using social groups to address those groups' needs. Ultimately social groups that become too unfair do not survive because members leave, in essence they are self-policing to a point.
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Interesting stuff...Lord of the Flies esque. Not mentioned is the "High Sherrif (Andy Griffith ref.)" and import there of. "ultimately social groups that become too unfair do not survive as members leave"...that tone is usually set by the Leader of the band...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1tkMRxRdmwU
 
Interesting song...I haven't heard Jimmie for a long time.

When Mark and I talked about the TB concept we agreed to be as light on moderating as we could be. Getting in and editing and thumping heads wasn't going to encourage the free flow of discussion.

Over the years we've had a few discussions about threads or participants. None of this is public discussion. Kind of like two dads talking about the kids I guess.

We've taken flak for letting things bounce along. Letting some people get 'out of hand'. Well, such is life. I have people in my tribe that I can only take in small doses but I like having them around.

People leave...people arrive...part of an social group.

As TB has gone along Mark and I have let things flow. We're happy with what has developed. Would TB be different if we were more heavy handed? Better? Worse? More or less participation?
 
i do kind of like the hands off approach. I think you guys have let guys basically take themselves out....by the time you act most people are like well i kinda saw that one comin.
 
Internet forums would be much less prone to these problems if everybody that wanted to post was required to make their name and contact info public to the forum. The hubris would be less pervasive, that's for sure. Anonymity allows people to treat others in a way they might not otherwise.

-Tom
 
You're right...I was thinking about this today as it relates to Tribe Treebuzz in particular and Internet communication in general.

Social scientists and sociologists have studied this too.
 
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I was wondering the same thing. What's up with these stupid avatar names we use anyway? Seems kind of childish.

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You talkin' 'bout me!? Me?!

Should I use 'Thomas' or 'Mr. Dunlap'????


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Internet forums would be much less prone to these problems if everybody that wanted to post was required to make their name and contact info public to the forum. The hubris would be less pervasive, that's for sure. Anonymity allows people to treat others in a way they might not otherwise.

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That may be easy for you to say, Mr Tom living up there in Rhode Island land. But even though I would trust most of you guys with who I am. (I have actually met a bunch of people on here). People have contacted me through these forums who were not of such wholesome character. Kind of is a creepy feeling that is hard to forget. So I vote, anonymity for sure. Now lets return to getting tribal.
 
One of the most interestng tribes out there is the French Foreign Legion. Everyone comes to it anonymous with the intent to become part of the family. They can remain anon or open up as they so choose. And yet that "secret" they carry is not a detriment to them becoming a part of the family.

Sometimes, in order for us to grow and flourish, some of our baggage truly needs to be buried. I'm all for the relative anonymity afforded here and the freedom to open up to those I grow to trust.

Not surprisingly then, I view the buzz very much like a huge family interacting, tearing into and rallying around each other in ways that defy sense.

Some of the siblings are wont to tweak another, some get a splinter in thier jockey's and take it out on everyone else and sometimes there are knock-down-drag-outs. We know whom we can trust and from whom to stay clear.

And, at some level, even when we truly dislike a member of the tribe, we still feel a kinship and concern for them when they disappear, are hurting or are even just beign themselves.

This is how most families work I suppose.

Sometimes there are members of the family that cross the line regularly but pose no real threat to family harmony so they are tolerated while others simply go beyond the pale and need to be sent away to be on their own, often to that person's great success.

And just like a family, while some decisions may be given consideration for consensus, some are just handled by the progenitors, often to the cries of, "not fair!" from the progeny.

A heavy hand is sometimes necessary but never should be frequent and certainly not wielded flagrantly or publicly. (
as is the case at Another Site)

I'm pretty sure that Mark and Tom have hit a good balance here and have acheived a decent level of that all elusive self-policing necessary to keep this tribe flourishing.
 

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