I was never trying to talk you into a "cheap chinese harness", simply trying to talk you out of throwing money away on that useless notch saddle (which BTW is made in China). I simply mentioned the xygood harness was a serviceable option better than what you were considering on your own...
Also I'm not treating you like a piece of crap because our opinions differ, I'll admit I'm being harsh yes but it's because I have kids your age and you're making bad decisions that no one here wants to see you make. I assume your parents arnt in this industry and therefor have little knowledge of what you're doing or advice to offer you (this is in no way a jab at them, there's a billion things I have zero knowledge of, I just happen to have a little knowledge of the subject at hand), if anything my intent is to advocate for you in their place and not let you kill yourself. I want to see you succeed. It gives me hope for your generation to see kids like you out here asking questions and learning and doing. Don't think I'm singling you out or picking on you but you can bet your ass I'm gonna keep right on being the harsh, vulgar, opinionated blue collar asshole I always am!
We don't have to be buddy buddy for me to want you to succeed. I've had it out with a couple other [adult] guys on this forum and we still post back and forth in threads and communicate in the name of helping each, and everyone else out. It's professionalism prevailing over otherwise butting heads. Im not here to treat you like shit.