I don't like the way my BFII OEM bridge wore so fast, that's why I replaced it. I agree webbing is better suited as a material for repeated bending under compression. I really don't care for the BFII webbing bridge design though.
I'm not sure what I'm gonna do yet, I'm riding a temporary made with Tech Cord and a dyneema runner but I've got some ideas. I used to use a two element bridge like williamd, usually clipping into both but it was kinda handy to use them individually when on two tie-ins. I used that at least a year and never had any real complaint, I just wanted a simpler setup so I made the one that turned to mush.
From now on I intend to replace my bridges every year... with what? I'm not sure but I'm thinking I'll incorporate a redundant part somehow, one that doesn't get much wear and can save my butt if the primary fails. I think the 5mm NE Tech Cord will work. We're using it now to backup Jared's Hi-Vee bridge with stopper knots... cuz we found out if you work at it, you can pull double overhand and stevedore knots through a bow shackle once they set and get wet and shrink up.
I think bridges/shackles need to be checked every climb. That's the only reason I didn't get pasted. I know exactly when those bridge elements parted... granted I'd just gone 70' on them so my check was out of sequence but I'd checked the day before and the bridge felt solid. It obviously wasn't, I've been climbing on an understrength bridge for a while now I guess. That's why I also think the bearing elements need to be visible and easy to check.
Of all the life support components we use, I think the harness bridge is THE most critical because of the wear it gets. You guys should see this Vectran, pictures don't do it justice... the stuff is like compressed paper pulp, you can't even tell it was braided cord except for the eyes.
The bending and compression forces on a bridge are pretty major, then think about the angles and how much extra tension is on the attachment points... the thing has concentrated forces working on it day in day out and it gets wet and sweaty and bloody... bridges have to be really tough.