Here's my homemade soft 8, and side by side with the one that Wesspur sells.

I think about it exactly like a natural crotch tie-in in DdRT. Around 3" or so diameter is a sweet spot for a solid tie-in with minimal friction. So my soft 8 is perfect for that.

You want the rope to just sit on the top 180 degrees of the branch. This will be easy to pull out, even with redirects. It acts a lot like a basal anchor when set up this way.
If the tie-in is too big relative to the soft 8, then the rope is sitting on 270 degrees or more of bark, and takes a bend at both rings. This will be a lot more friction, harder to pull out. This picture below is not ideal to show this, but imagine the tie-in was several inches bigger still, the rope would take a big bend on either side of the rings which would be a lot of friction to pull. (Again, imagine the friction on a natural crotch tie-in for DdRT of say 8-10" or more, not fun to climb on).

Now if the soft 8 is too long for the tie-in, then it wants to rotate up and around the crotch, which can cause problems with jamming up. An adjustable soft 8 would be nice but it's such a small little thing, would be difficult to make.

This all might sound a bit complicated but it's really not. I just think about it exactly like tying in with DdRT on a natural crotch, that 3 inch or so branch is exactly what I'm looking for, and when matched with a nice short soft 8, it really does behave more like a basal anchor, as far as retrieval is concerned. The soft 8 just floats there underneath the tie-in and when you pull on the other end, the rope is just running through crotches exactly like a basal anchor.