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WOW! I Will say this ,Over the years i have given and given!! Then the level of expectation grows!!! It must be human nature.I had one young fella who started out making 12 per hour w me,in four years I got him to twenty,added health ins,then a 401k w 3% match,bought him a gym membership,250.00$ a year arborwear allowance,Christmas bonus, company dinner,heck I even let the young man take my truck a couple time to help out some friends that were less fortunate.Now im sure this makes me sound wonderful.....!trust me I am not,I am a jerk!!
In the end we split over money that I had "promised" him.The truth is I wasn't able to continue to move him up the pay scale as rapidly as i wished because the economic climate was rapidly changing. The point is he developed a certain level of expectation that I actually created.It became difficult for me to out do myself!! Does this make sense at all?
The truth is owners and employees view things very, very differently!!
Cant we all just get along?
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Can I come work for you? That sounds like a pretty good gig to me!!
It sounds to me that you "created" the problem because you wanted to be a good boss. You can't be faulted for that. The problem may simply have been with the employee thinking he was entitled to these things on a regular basis and not seeing them as a "bonus" that was given when you were financially able to do so. This could have been just a misunderstanding or it could've been a character issue. Some people don't expect anything extra, and are surprised and happy when they get a "bonus". On the other hand, there are those who think they are entitled to these things on a regular basis, and then are disappointed and disgruntled when they don't get it. Many employees don't see the other side of a business, the operation costs and the risks involved. I think many times, employees like you mention find that the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
-BarnHouse
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nailed it on the head barnhouse, i couldnt agree with you more. excellent post
Paul. you didnt do anything wrong but be a good boss, the problem was with the employee not the employer. Id hate to see you change your ways just because of one incident. Owners and employees dont see things differently if a common goal is set