I had dinner at Joey’s parent’s house on Wednesday February 16, hard to believe it was a month since we lost him.
It was good, as always, to spend time with his parents. We had a nice home-cooked meal and then sat around talking, as I knew we would.
They were kind enough to show me some pictures of Joey. I still can’t get over him with long hair, and a tiger! Apparently one of his friends actually had a Bengal tiger who just adored Joey. There were pictures of the two of them rolling around together. Why wasn’t I surprised to see a picture of Joey and one of the largest, carnivorous, lethal creatures on the planet…?
I also spoke to his parents more about the fund for the girls. It is kind of trust fund, that I do not pretend to understand, but his Dad is overseeing it. My limited understanding of it is that money will be made available to all three girls when and if they go to college. Anyone interested in giving a little to help out, please make checks payable to his father and send to the address below:
William Cornell
1072 Bordeaux Ln
Pennsburg, PA 18073
I would also like to share something with you all that I also shared with his parents. As many of you know, Joey just wanted to make a difference; he wanted to help other people. About a year ago, Joey was actually hired by my company and he and I were going to work together on safety and training. He was so excited about the chance to affect the lives of almost 30,000 people.
To honor Joey, what he stood for and what he wanted to do, I showed some of the pictures that I have of him in a presentation set to the Evanescence song, October. It was the day after what would have been his 41st birthday. I was doing a safety talk and I prefaced the presentation by saying that although Joey didn’t die at work, all that is left for his friends and family, those of us who lived him, are pictures and memories. I told the group that they need to remember that fact, remembering Joey if it helps, so when they are faced with a decision to do something unsafe, they will make the right decision. The decision will hopefully bring them home to their families. Only about ½ of the room was able to stay dry eyed, no, I was not one of them.
Thanks brother for caring, for dreaming, for trying to make a difference in the lives of so many people. You made a difference to many, many people and will continue to do so as long as I am alive.
Tim