Had a strange one yesterday. I work for a senior community. The manager's mom needed a small pruning job done offsite, at her home.
I was trying to go a week or two ago on my Friday bid day, but she had a hair appointment (go blue!) in the am, and husband had a the dentist appointment in the afternoon. I guess that wiped out the whole day.
I arranged with her yesterday morning to go yesterday afternoon. We get there, and their small (13' tall) maple and dogwood are pruned. The husband had done it (and pretty well, especially considering the daughter is in her 50's).
Husband comes out first, while wife is getting a coat, I guess. He explains he did it, but she's not happy with it.
She comes out and says: Can't you do something? It was too fat. Its ugly, can't you do something?
Me: Well, what does ugly mean to you?
She: You know, it needs to be groomed.
Me: What does groomed mean to you?
She: you know how they make them look so beautiful, and that's ugly.
Me: How would you like it to look differently?
She: Well its ugly.
Me: Looks good to me(not perfect, good, but what can you do when a large % has already been taken off with the canopy raise to the height that he could reach from the ground).
Me: What does beautiful mean to you?
She: That's just ugly.
Me: When was the pruning done?
Him: This year.
Me: How about waiting until its fully leafed out see what you think.
Him: Maybe if you are in the neighborhood after its leafed out, you can have a look.
Me: Sure. I think it will look fine after its leafed out. If we are in the neighborhood, we'll swing by. Looks like you did a good job on the pruning. I think it will look fine.
Him: That would be great if you could have a look later.
Me: Sure, no problem, when we are in the neighborhood. Have a good day.
Glad I didn't prune it, 'cause it surely wouldn't be the tree she imagines.
All of my elderly customers have been okay to work for otherwise. I try to give them a break, if I can, unless they are living on the golf course.
A lot of veterans, widows, and fixed incomes.