Evo,
There are many different types of these hydraulic couplers. The ones you're looking for are typically called (Flat Face)
Hydraulic Quick Connect Couplers or similar, Male/Female.
There are a few different styles IE the smaller Ag style.
What it comes down to for selection is what type of fitting is on the end of your hoses. On our standard BMG we use 1/2" NPT threads due to the ease of availability for your hydraulic shops. An O-Ring Boss fitting is rock solid.
I know Ditch Witch uses a 3/8" Line with 6FJIC ends on their hoses, not sure on the Vermeer but JIC is pretty common. In hydraulics a 6 indicates 3/8" and an 8 indicates 1/2".
Many are made to the same ISO standard and are compatible across brands, however, I've had compatibility issues with couplers of different brands made to the same ISO standard.
A bit of info here but you can also check the brand & part numbers on your machine's bulkhead couplers and find the matching ones that aren't bulkhead couplers or ask a hydraulic shop to do it & ship them
For reference a pair of 1/2" couplers from us currently run about $85-$150 depending on connection & brand.