"we are all capable of doing what others have and are doing, you just have to set your mind to that goal and except nothing less..."
No we are not!
Everyone is different and we can't do anything we want just because we try our hardest.
We should all try hard to become what we can, but we can't become anything we set our sights on.
If so, everyone would be Olympic athletes, rock stars and millionaires.
We have a whole generation that we've been telling; if you set your mind to it you can do anything you want. Well that's bull crap and it's nice to set high goals, but the sky isn't the limit.
People wonder why people get so down when they don't become what they would like to be.
You’re not going to become a surgical doctor if you don't have a high IQ and a very steady hand. If you were born with cerebral palsy, just because you try hard, you think you are going to be a doctor?, NO.
You’re not likely going to be the world's fastest footlock climber if you are 4 feet tall, no matter how much you practice.
Everyone might have a special skill and that is what they might be good at in life. You can't just become whatever you want, just because you give it your all.
My wife works in the school system and she dislikes that kids were being told for a while there, that they can do ANYTHING they want if they just try hard enough.
I'm not trying to be gloomy here, just real.