a 14yo that has read darn near all the climbing related training material available, taken some ISA testing, gotten advice from people such as August Hunickie, climbed with professionals, and knows atleast basic safety and regulations (4" minimum wood size for life support, 5000# mbs for all metal devices for life support 5400# MBS for all synthetics/fabric never use rigging gear for life support, all life support must have automatic triple action locking gates)
if yall are gonna complain about me being stupid (Which im not) then I will just block every one of yall, it hurts me none
Treesap,
I have been you. I have been, eager, earnest wanting to progress. I still am. The difference is not so much in years. Although there are enough in between us that I am slightly embarrassed by my progression on this big rock spinning around the sun.
The difference comes in attitude and perseverance. These in the end are the only two things we can control. How we see a situation and how we react to it.
As a young man, you only have attitude working for you. You have not lived long enough to experience true perseverance. There is no shame in this. It is simply a matter of time. Yet another thing we do not control.
Life is full of decisions. Lacking the time to build perseverance, I suggest you focus on attitude. For you now it is a time to listen, to digest, to compare and contrast, to form a judgement based not on whim, but experience. At first, experience of others, later your own.
True learning takes time. Time to see, understand, then master the principles of any subject. This is not to undervalue you, but to point out, you have not had enough time.
I will give you these words of advice. I follow them to this day many years your senior.
Listen more than you speak
Disagree, but do not judge.
Be humble
Be grateful
Don’t speak of yourself. If your story is good enough others will tell it for you.
Be kind
Reserve the right to have no opinion.
Speak only when your words will add not subtract.
I hope this makes sense to you. The last tool for living I will share; strive to comunicate so well, repetition becomes weakness.
Tony