Have a friend who is 88 years of age call me to take down a tree he was afraid would fall and get hung up over his driveway. I popped on down to his place to take a look. 60' tall, thin balsam that was still kicking on the top 20' but rotting terribly at the base. If it fell it would have hung up at about a 45 degree angle over the driveway. No way to drop it down the drive without smashing some young paper birch he had planted. I managed to get a line about a third of the way up and pulled on it hard enough to feel comfortable climbing it. I hate balsam trees. Nothing but a lot of dead branches for 40 feet. Not like the ones that grow out in the open. So, I sheared branches on my way up until I was able to lope off the twin tops and chunk my way down. I knew he was going to try and pay me for the job, but I talked him into letting me dip my hand into his cigar humidor instead. I withdrew an Aston Cabinet which runs about 25 dollars. He grabbed one himself and we spent the next two hours sitting in his screen porch enjoying the cigars and reminiscing about how the world has changed, and what the hell happened to our politicians and their parties.
It was an easy day with a good friend. Would have been a dandy day to sip some good bourbon as well, but since I have not had a drink in several years, I was not about to go down that road, and he knew not to offer, although I'm sure he was dying to get his hands on a glass himself. Probably made a run for one as soon as I left. I also know I will get in my truck one morning and there will be 50 to 100 dollars sitting on my seat and he will claim he knows nothing about it. We have been good friends for more than fifty years. We have watched each other grow older and weaker over the years, and have always lent a hand when needed. I know he feels bad that he is not able to help me as much as he used to do, and I pretend that he helps me a lot still, but he knows I am just pretending to make him feel better.
Good, old friends. Becomes important at a certain point in your life.