Hey bro!! I have three kids.2 girls and a boy. my oldest is 13,youngest is 4.It doesn't slow down my friend.Please heed my words.......enjoy every single moment you have with them, there is time to work later.One day you will wake up and they will be moving out.There are no do overs..wring every drop of joy out of each experience with them and you will be so glad you did!!!