Frax
Participating member
Female perspective is largely missing in this thread (excepting the FB posts and Hooters tangent), and that needs to be heard for this to be a valid discussion. However, what female is going to invest time and energy on people who seek to invalidate their intrinsic personhood? This thread is, in part, an echo chamber.
Since my name was dropped in here I feel like I should say something.
I rarely talk about gender issues because I've seen that women who do, get a reputation for being prickly and difficult to work with, whether true or not. I've had nothing but great relationships with men I've worked with.
I've had tree dudes call me any number of names and even had a threat of violence over random online issues I may have commented on. Being a "commie cunt" and"feminazi" are probably the most colourful. I don't even think I'm particularly provocative but you never know what's going to set someone off.
I always considered Matt a good dude, and my limited interactions with him were positive.
I was a little astounded he called me a feminazi over a comment I made over a silly biblical meme (a caveman with a sexy cavewoman unconscious and slung over his shoulder with the claim that God made Eve for Adam and not the other way around). I didn't know he was a religious fundamentalist who believes that men have dominion over women. He also asserted he would never take direction from a woman, apparently on religious grounds. I'm well aware there are a fair chunk of men including other trees guys who think this too. Not my business, and I didn't press it. Religious zealots are all over. I usually try not to poke them.
It seemed as if he got into hot water over supporting someone else's comment that looked like it was saying that women are to be looked on as slaves. That wasn't quite what was said. It was shitty grammar and lack of a single crucial comma. I actually defended him online against that particular thing, but his wife and others had come to the conclusion that I was on a witch hunt. My whole involvement was a few comments related to that stupid meme.
I have no idea what transpired between Matt and Treestuff and it's none of my business. I certainly had nothing at all to do with it.
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