Dave, your terminology is fine. Your example is an instance of static friction, as I'm sure you know. Let me elaborate on my point using your example:
Your groundman is holding the load using 50 lb force. He could now pull a lot harder, say 500 lb, and still everything would be "stationary without movement." He could even pull with 4000 lb and still everything would be at rest. If we say, for the sake of the argument, that he is pulling in the same direction as the load, then the total load on the bollard would be 550 lb in the one case and 4500 lb in the other! In the tree diagram earlier in the thread, you don't know, when everything is at rest, if friction is helping to reduce the downward load or not. It could even be much worse than the 4X we would have if no friction were involved.
For example, in a simple crotch setup (no pulley), if 500 lb drops and causes a maximum dynamic load to the rope of 2000 lb, perhaps the anchor leg would see 1500 lb. When the load bounces and comes to rest, tension in the load leg will drop to 500 lb. But because of all the friction up at the crotch, the anchor leg may not give up all that 1500 lb. It may end up with 1000 lb. In effect, the static friction in the crotch allows the anchor leg to store energy in the form of tension, and the total rest load may end up being considerably greater than the theoretical 2X. It also could be smaller. The crotch friction prevents the two legs from equilibrating their tensions unless the difference in tensions is sufficiently great. Just like your bollard.
The one thing I think you can say for sure is friction at a crotch (or pulley) will reduce maximum downward dynamic load at the crotch.