Too bad you didn't get the job, skew. You surely did your homework, and have the experience to determine what plan of attack would make the most sense and be safest.
I do hope you venture out and take pics, as it would be helpful for all of us, and you to see how things go.
Having not seen the tree, it is hard for us to say much. But, a couple observations come to mind. One, a 40 inch dbh tree and only 100 feet tall tells me the tree has quite a bit of taper, which is a good thing. And, if small pieces were being lifted off gently, the tree would only get lighter and would feel minimal shock loads. Also, is it possible to guy the tree against its lean?
Two years ago, AS member WileyP came across a similar situation, with a very hairy lightning split hemlock...someone else, I think it was Asplundh, did the tree, for much cheaper..but they damaged the landscape, and likely took way too much risk....