The point you make is an important one.
Remember that this stem splitting scenario can also apply to large horizontal limbs, the same injuries will occur if the large branch splits and pulls you in, maybe break your spine or end up with you needing a colostomy bag for life.
I am almost always on my front Ds when pruning or distmantling a tree. Until I get to the spar stage.
I think that the side D to side D connection is a problem, if you step up into a crotch when tied side D to side D and then suddenly slip your gonna shock load your spine! this is the reason I do not like Gibbs, Gri Gri, Grillon, Trango Cinch, Micrograb etc because they are almost always too fixed to that side D so you are less inclined to switch to the front D or bridge, when you really should.
I just dont like the feeling of being tied in side D to side D, even as a secondary tie in point, say on a large branch walk, to stop you swinging back into the stem.
But I think I am in the minority as many climbers like the side D to side D connection for their lanyard.
Your photos should be embedded in the text so that people can see them Pete.