That’s horrible. My deepest condolences to all who knew him, I’m so sorry.
In all likelihood, this is two lives completely wasted, and also a child who will have a harder life with much less love, protection, and guidance.
Heartbreaking, it truly is.
I wish people were nicer to each other.
It’s my mantra; don’t hurt anyone ever, don’t hurt anyone ever, don’t hurt anyone ever. I have a temper too, and I hate that about myself. I’ll have a little internal dialogue with myself if I’m angry. “ what are you gonna do about it? Is this a reasonable reaction? What’s the endgame? Am I escalating shit and making things worse?”